Checked on 4.9.0-0.nightly-2022-07-19-151050 by running pods over a day and don't see unexpectedly high memory usage by kubelet on node.
% oc get clusterversion
NAME VERSION AVAILABLE PROGRESSING SINCE STATUS
version 4.9.0-0.nightly-2022-07-19-151050 True False 5h43m Cluster version is 4.9.0-0.nightly-2022-07-19-151050
Since the problem described in this bug report should be
resolved in a recent advisory, it has been closed with a
resolution of ERRATA.
For information on the advisory (Important: OpenShift Container Platform 4.9.45 bug fix and security update), and where to find the updated
files, follow the link below.
If the solution does not work for you, open a new bug report.
https://access.redhat.com/errata/RHSA-2022:5879