Description of problem:
rabbitmq server starts to fail often during HA stress tests of OSP9. It seems to be caused by regression already reported in upstream and targeted for upstream 36.3 release.

Upstream bug: https://github.com/rabbitmq/rabbitmq-server/issues/812

Version-Release number of selected component (if applicable):
rabbitmq-server-3.6.2-3.el7ost.noarch

How reproducible:
Often

Steps to Reproduce:
1. non-gracefully reset a controller of HA OPS9 environment
2. repeat the 1. step multiple times until one of the rabbitmq servers crashes
3.

Additional info:

** Generic server <0.21044.0> terminating
** Last message in was {maybe_expire,4}
** When Server state == {q,
                         {amqqueue,
                          {resource,<<"/">>,queue,
                           <<"heat-engine-listener_fanout_67a9b88061cb4a7d93cb4381fe86ec7f">>},
                          false,false,none,
                          [{<<"x-expires">>,signedint,600000},
                           {<<"x-ha-policy">>,longstr,<<"all">>}],
                          <0.21044.0>,
                          [<24587.4110.0>,<24588.1171.2>],
                          [<24587.4110.0>],
                          ['rabbit@overcloud-controller-0',
                           'rabbit@overcloud-controller-2'],
                          [{vhost,<<"/">>},
                           {name,<<"ha-all">>},
                           {pattern,<<"^(?!amq\\.).*">>},
                           {'apply-to',<<"all">>},
                           {definition,[{<<"ha-mode">>,<<"all">>}]},
                           {priority,0}],
                          [{<24588.2786.2>,<24588.1171.2>},
                           {<24587.4111.0>,<24587.4110.0>},
                           {<0.21048.0>,<0.21044.0>}],
                          [],live},
                         none,false,rabbit_mirror_queue_master,
                         {state,
                          {resource,<<"/">>,queue,
                           <<"heat-engine-listener_fanout_67a9b88061cb4a7d93cb4381fe86ec7f">>},
                          <0.21048.0>,<0.3691.1>,rabbit_priority_queue,
                          {passthrough,rabbit_variable_queue,
                           {vqstate,
                            {0,{[],[]}},
                            {0,{[],[]}},
                            {delta,undefined,0,undefined},
                            {0,{[],[]}},
                            {0,{[],[]}},
                            0,
                            {0,nil},
                            {0,nil},
                            {0,nil},
                            {qistate,
                             "/var/lib/rabbitmq/mnesia/rabbit@overcloud-controller-1/queues/6OOTXLJWFMOE5W8XW53XWFYJT",
                             {{dict,0,16,16,8,80,48,
                               {[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],
                                []},
                               {{[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],
                                 []}}},
                              []},
                             undefined,0,32768,
                             #Fun<rabbit_variable_queue.2.131658179>,
                             #Fun<rabbit_variable_queue.3.131658179>,
                             {0,nil},
                             {0,nil},
                             [],[]},
                            {undefined,
                             {client_msstate,msg_store_transient,
                              <<254,88,125,220,97,216,175,80,36,32,92,89,170,
                                80,191,154>>,
                              {dict,0,16,16,8,80,48,
                               {[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],
                                []},
                               {{[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],
                                 []}}},
                              {state,933956,
                               "/var/lib/rabbitmq/mnesia/rabbit@overcloud-controller-1/msg_store_transient"},
                              rabbit_msg_store_ets_index,
                              "/var/lib/rabbitmq/mnesia/rabbit@overcloud-controller-1/msg_store_transient",
                              <0.827.0>,938051,929813,942146,946240,
                              {2000,500}}},
                            false,0,4096,0,0,0,0,0,infinity,0,0,0,0,0,0,
                            {rates,0.0,0.0,0.0,0.0,-576458772371924324},
                            {0,nil},
                            {0,nil},
                            {0,nil},
                            {0,nil},
                            0,0,0,0,2048,default}},
                          {dict,0,16,16,8,80,48,
                           {[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[]},
                           {{[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],
                             []}}},
                          [],
                          {set,0,16,16,8,80,48,
                           {[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[]},
                           {{[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],
                             []}}},
                          undefined},
                         {state,{queue,[],[],0},{active,-576458772925912,1.0}},
                         600000,undefined,undefined,
                         {erlang,#Ref<0.0.4.54411>},
                         {state,none,5000,undefined},
                         {0,nil},
                         undefined,undefined,undefined,
                         {state,
                          {dict,0,16,16,8,80,48,
                           {[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[]},
                           {{[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],[],
                             []}}},
                          delegate},
                         undefined,undefined,undefined,undefined,4,running}
** Reason for termination ==
** {timeout_value,
       [{rabbit_mirror_queue_master,'-stop_all_slaves/2-lc$^1/1-1-',3,
            [{file,"src/rabbit_mirror_queue_master.erl"},{line,217}]},
        {rabbit_mirror_queue_master,stop_all_slaves,2,
            [{file,"src/rabbit_mirror_queue_master.erl"},{line,217}]},
        {rabbit_mirror_queue_master,delete_and_terminate,2,
            [{file,"src/rabbit_mirror_queue_master.erl"},{line,205}]},
        {rabbit_amqqueue_process,'-terminate_delete/3-fun-1-',6,
            [{file,"src/rabbit_amqqueue_process.erl"},{line,252}]},
        {rabbit_amqqueue_process,terminate_shutdown,2,
            [{file,"src/rabbit_amqqueue_process.erl"},{line,277}]},
        {gen_server2,terminate,3,[{file,"src/gen_server2.erl"},{line,1146}]},
        {proc_lib,wake_up,3,[{file,"proc_lib.erl"},{line,250}]}]}
** In 'terminate' callback with reason ==
** normal