Description of problem:
The domain with vhost-user interface sometimes hang when starting.
And The qemu-kvm will always throws the error info.

Version-Release number of selected component (if applicable):
host:
           5.14.0-212.el9.x86_64
           qemu-kvm-7.2.0-1.el9.x86_64
           tuned-2.19.0-1.el9.noarch
           libvirt-8.10.0-2.el9.x86_64
           python3-libvirt-8.10.0-1.el9.x86_64
           openvswitch2.17-2.17.0-58.el9fdp.x86_64
           dpdk-21.11.2-1.el9_1.x86_64
           edk2-ovmf-20220826gitba0e0e4c6a-2.el9.noarch
           seabios-bin-1.16.1-1.el9.noarch

How reproducible:
100%

Steps to Reproduce:
1. setup the nfv environment
# echo "isolated_cores=2,4,6,8,10,12,14,16,18,20,22,24,26,28,30,31,29,27,25,23,21,19,17,15,13,11"  >> /etc/tuned/cpu-partitioning-variables.conf  
# tuned-adm profile cpu-partitioning
# grubby --args="iommu=pt intel_iommu=on default_hugepagesz=1G pci=realloc" --update-kernel=`grubby --default-kernel` 
# reboot
# cat /proc/cmdline
...
skew_tick=1 nohz=on nohz_full=2,4,6,8,10,12,14,16,18,20,22,24,26,28,30,31,29,27,25,23,21,19,17,15,13,11 rcu_nocbs=2,4,6,8,10,12,14,16,18,20,22,24,26,28,30,31,29,27,25,23,21,19,17,15,13,11 tuned.non_isolcpus=ffffffff,000002ab intel_pstate=disable nosoftlockup iommu=pt intel_iommu=on default_hugepagesz=1G pci=realloc
# echo 20 > /sys/devices/system/node/node0/hugepages/hugepages-1048576kB/nr_hugepages
# echo 20 > /sys/devices/system/node/node1/hugepages/hugepages-1048576kB/nr_hugepages

2. start a dpdk-testpmd or openvswitch 

3. start a domain with vhost-user interface(s)
/usr/libexec/qemu-kvm \
-name guest=rhel9.2,debug-threads=on \
-S \
-object '{"qom-type":"secret","id":"masterKey0","format":"raw","file":"/var/lib/libvirt/qemu/domain-1-rhel9.2/master-key.aes"}' \
-blockdev '{"driver":"file","filename":"/usr/share/edk2/ovmf/OVMF_CODE.secboot.fd","node-name":"libvirt-pflash0-storage","auto-read-only":true,"discard":"unmap"}' \
-blockdev '{"node-name":"libvirt-pflash0-format","read-only":true,"driver":"raw","file":"libvirt-pflash0-storage"}' \
-blockdev '{"driver":"file","filename":"/var/lib/libvirt/qemu/nvram/rhel9.2_VARS.fd","node-name":"libvirt-pflash1-storage","auto-read-only":true,"discard":"unmap"}' \
-blockdev '{"node-name":"libvirt-pflash1-format","read-only":false,"driver":"raw","file":"libvirt-pflash1-storage"}' \
-machine pc-q35-rhel9.2.0,usb=off,vmport=off,smm=on,kernel_irqchip=split,dump-guest-core=off,pflash0=libvirt-pflash0-format,pflash1=libvirt-pflash1-format \
-accel kvm \
-cpu Skylake-Server-IBRS,ss=on,vmx=on,pdcm=on,hypervisor=on,tsc-adjust=on,clflushopt=on,umip=on,pku=on,md-clear=on,stibp=on,arch-capabilities=on,ssbd=on,xsaves=on,ibpb=on,ibrs=on,amd-stibp=on,amd-ssbd=on,rsba=on,skip-l1dfl-vmentry=on,pschange-mc-no=on,tsc-deadline=on,pmu=off \
-global driver=cfi.pflash01,property=secure,value=on \
-m 8192 \
-overcommit mem-lock=on \
-smp 6,sockets=3,dies=1,cores=1,threads=2 \
-object '{"qom-type":"thread-context","id":"tc-ram-node0","node-affinity":[0]}' \
-object '{"qom-type":"memory-backend-file","id":"ram-node0","mem-path":"/dev/hugepages/libvirt/qemu/1-rhel9.2","share":true,"prealloc":true,"size":8589934592,"host-nodes":[0],"policy":"bind","prealloc-context":"tc-ram-node0"}' \
-numa node,nodeid=0,cpus=0-5,memdev=ram-node0 \
-uuid dc791d54-929d-11ed-bc6b-20040fec000c \
-display none \
-no-user-config \
-nodefaults \
-chardev socket,id=charmonitor,fd=22,server=on,wait=off \
-mon chardev=charmonitor,id=monitor,mode=control \
-rtc base=utc,driftfix=slew \
-global kvm-pit.lost_tick_policy=delay \
-no-hpet \
-no-shutdown \
-boot strict=on \
-device '{"driver":"intel-iommu","id":"iommu0","intremap":"on","caching-mode":true,"device-iotlb":true}' \
-device '{"driver":"pcie-root-port","port":16,"chassis":1,"id":"pci.1","bus":"pcie.0","multifunction":true,"addr":"0x2"}' \
-device '{"driver":"pcie-root-port","port":17,"chassis":2,"id":"pci.2","bus":"pcie.0","addr":"0x2.0x1"}' \
-device '{"driver":"pcie-root-port","port":18,"chassis":3,"id":"pci.3","bus":"pcie.0","addr":"0x2.0x2"}' \
-device '{"driver":"pcie-root-port","port":19,"chassis":4,"id":"pci.4","bus":"pcie.0","addr":"0x2.0x3"}' \
-device '{"driver":"pcie-root-port","port":20,"chassis":5,"id":"pci.5","bus":"pcie.0","addr":"0x2.0x4"}' \
-device '{"driver":"pcie-root-port","port":21,"chassis":6,"id":"pci.6","bus":"pcie.0","addr":"0x2.0x5"}' \
-device '{"driver":"pcie-root-port","port":22,"chassis":7,"id":"pci.7","bus":"pcie.0","addr":"0x2.0x6"}' \
-device '{"driver":"pcie-root-port","port":23,"chassis":8,"id":"pci.8","bus":"pcie.0","addr":"0x2.0x7"}' \
-blockdev '{"driver":"file","filename":"/mnt/nfv//rhel9.2.qcow2","aio":"threads","node-name":"libvirt-1-storage","cache":{"direct":true,"no-flush":false},"auto-read-only":true,"discard":"unmap"}' \
-blockdev '{"node-name":"libvirt-1-format","read-only":false,"cache":{"direct":true,"no-flush":false},"driver":"qcow2","file":"libvirt-1-storage","backing":null}' \
-device '{"driver":"virtio-blk-pci","iommu_platform":true,"ats":true,"bus":"pci.2","addr":"0x0","drive":"libvirt-1-format","id":"virtio-disk0","bootindex":1,"write-cache":"on"}' \
-netdev '{"type":"tap","fd":"23","vhost":true,"vhostfd":"25","id":"hostnet0"}' \
-device '{"driver":"virtio-net-pci","iommu_platform":true,"ats":true,"netdev":"hostnet0","id":"net0","mac":"28:66:da:5f:dd:01","bus":"pci.1","addr":"0x0"}' \
-chardev socket,id=charnet1,path=/tmp/vhostuser0.sock,server=on \
-netdev '{"type":"vhost-user","chardev":"charnet1","queues":2,"id":"hostnet1"}' \
-device '{"driver":"virtio-net-pci","iommu_platform":true,"ats":true,"mq":true,"vectors":6,"rx_queue_size":1024,"netdev":"hostnet1","id":"net1","mac":"18:66:da:5f:dd:02","bus":"pci.6","addr":"0x0"}' \
-chardev socket,id=charnet2,path=/tmp/vhostuser1.sock,server=on \
-netdev '{"type":"vhost-user","chardev":"charnet2","queues":2,"id":"hostnet2"}' \
-device '{"driver":"virtio-net-pci","iommu_platform":true,"ats":true,"mq":true,"vectors":6,"rx_queue_size":1024,"netdev":"hostnet2","id":"net2","mac":"18:66:da:5f:dd:03","bus":"pci.7","addr":"0x0"}' \
-chardev socket,id=charnet3,path=/tmp/vhostuser2.sock,server=on \
-netdev '{"type":"vhost-user","chardev":"charnet3","id":"hostnet3"}' \
-device '{"driver":"virtio-net-pci","iommu_platform":true,"ats":true,"rx_queue_size":1024,"netdev":"hostnet3","id":"net3","mac":"18:66:da:5f:dd:04","bus":"pci.8","addr":"0x0"}' \
-chardev pty,id=charserial0 \
-device '{"driver":"isa-serial","chardev":"charserial0","id":"serial0","index":0}' \
-chardev socket,id=chrtpm,path=/run/libvirt/qemu/swtpm/1-rhel9.2-swtpm.sock \
-tpmdev emulator,id=tpm-tpm0,chardev=chrtpm \
-device '{"driver":"tpm-crb","tpmdev":"tpm-tpm0","id":"tpm0"}' \
-audiodev '{"id":"audio1","driver":"none"}' \
-device '{"driver":"virtio-balloon-pci","iommu_platform":true,"ats":true,"id":"balloon0","bus":"pci.4","addr":"0x0"}' \
-sandbox on,obsolete=deny,elevateprivileges=deny,spawn=deny,resourcecontrol=deny \
-msg timestamp=on



Actual results:
The qemu-kvm throws the following error:
2022-12-20T09:29:51.849295Z qemu-kvm: Received unexpected msg type. Expected 22 received 40
2022-12-20T09:29:51.849321Z qemu-kvm: Fail to update device iotlb
2022-12-20T09:29:51.849499Z qemu-kvm: Received unexpected msg type. Expected 40 received 22
2022-12-20T09:29:51.849598Z qemu-kvm: Received unexpected msg type. Expected 22 received 11
2022-12-20T09:29:51.849611Z qemu-kvm: Fail to update device iotlb
2022-12-20T09:29:51.849662Z qemu-kvm: Received unexpected msg type. Expected 11 received 22
2022-12-20T09:29:51.849677Z qemu-kvm: vhost VQ 1 ring restore failed: -71: Protocol error (71)
2022-12-20T09:29:51.849781Z qemu-kvm: Received unexpected msg type. Expected 22 received 11
2022-12-20T09:29:51.849794Z qemu-kvm: Fail to update device iotlb
2022-12-20T09:29:51.849844Z qemu-kvm: Received unexpected msg type. Expected 11 received 22
2022-12-20T09:29:51.849858Z qemu-kvm: vhost VQ 0 ring restore failed: -71: Protocol error (71)
2022-12-20T09:29:51.853130Z qemu-kvm: unable to start vhost net: 71: falling back on userspace virtio



Expected results:
No any error

Additional info:
（1） this bug can not be reproduced in qemu-kvm-7.1.0-7.el9.x86_64